Feeling embarrassed

Sorry, I’m not doing well. I’ve been trying to promote for months, and it looks like I’m not going anywhere. Could it be that I’m not doing enough?

Recently, my mental health has been severely compromised, making it challenging for me to actively promote myself on my OF, where I post daily. People who say they “don’t do PPV” or waste my time are the only ones who call me. I have only double-digit subs, but my subscription price is very low. I feel like I’m underselling myself with the daily posts and everything. Idk, I just feel stupid, like everyone else is making it work but I can’t.

It was helpful to sell a custom movie to a subscriber, but he deleted his account right after. That makes me feel rejected, and my BPD brain doesn’t like that.

I’ve tried to get into my niches too, and still not much progress. I’ve tried to do it, but it seems like guys only want to be put down in that kink, which is not me at all. I also tried to do GFE, but I don’t know why I can’t find anyone who wants to do it. I feel really stupid for even trying. People are interested in other kink stuff I do, but not many people subscribe.

Sorry if this post comes off as pick me. I probably shouldn’t post this because I’m spiraling, but I’d like to know if anyone has any tips on how to work in SW, even if it’s just for neurodiverse or mentally disabled people.

Gotta be more involved on other social media outlets. Consistently post. It’s a lot of work

Thank you! I really do find myself forgetting to post on my other social media sites.

I use postpone for social media posting; it was absolutely worth it since the time it saved me! While not all, you can use it for select subreddits as well. It has been really beneficial for me. Should you want to check it out, it offers a free trial. Though I only used HootSuite years ago, I know there are other social media schedulers as well. You still have to go in and check messages and reply to posts, but if you find difficulty remembering just to schedule, it could help! It will record the images you have and haven’t used for each social media platform and how they did all sorts of awesome stuff :blush:.

Thank you very much. I find it quite difficult to remember, so I would greatly benefit from that!

It has really benefited me, and you can use it to plan most of your social events.

I also struggle to choose a social media platform to frequently highlight myself and maintain that confidence. I’ll have it for about a month and post consistently; my self-esteem suffers, and it’s back to square one. It makes me feel like I’m making myself fail. Should you come across anything that helps, I would also like to know.

Exactly same! Every single day for around forty-five days, I posted on here and received a lot of attention; unfortunately, this hardly ever translates into OF subs. Perhaps I should publish more on my other social media sites. It isn’t easy, as Reddit looks most likely to gain popularity, especially with unique fetishes.

Regarding this, I would not treat anything personally. Even better, create a character that resembles a wall guarding your “real” self.

Make sure to post frequently in the evenings on X, as this can be done quickly if done correctly. gaining attention from other trending posts and leaving comments on other people’s threads (mostly meme pages, not those of other producers). Just be careful not to overwork yourself.

Your social media profiles will be your primary source of traffic. By establishing your brand around your interests, passions, abilities, and hobbies, you want to increase your following on social media platforms like Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, Snap, and TikTok. Use unique SFW posts to add humor, showcase your personality, and leave a lasting impression on your audience. Consider the types of videos you enjoy seeing, then follow the creator. Take inspiration from your own interests. After that, create a robust funnel system to lead prospective followers to your other social media profiles. Finally, decide which landing page you want to use as your bio link (this should include your spice page). I hope this is useful, and best of luck!

I have been advertising for a very long time. I receive strange sub now and then. I have other work, hence it’s not a problem for me. Sw is one, but with all the promotion, still irritates me.

Thank you so much for the reminder!