How do you deal with pushy subscribers?

A sub of mine enjoys watching me get fucked, which is fantastic, but in the past month or so, he has been increasingly demanding and wants to witness numerous men fucking me simultaneously. I have never done that, and although I’m not against it, I couldn’t simply arrange it for obvious reasons. In any case, I’ve been friendly and have told him why a gangbang isn’t a realistic request. I informed him that it would be more likely for there to be a threesome, and I eventually had one and published the video. He expressed his immense happiness, claiming to have watched it more than 20 times (he has purchased content on several occasions but has never left me a tip). He is emailing me now, stating, “I think we are due for another threesome,” even though it has been a few weeks since the last threesome. I’ve been biting my tongue since I find it unpleasant that he expects these things from me, but I’m getting close to breaking point with him. In what way would you deal with such a sub?

The response given above is excellent; but, I should add that going forward, a “demand tax” will be charged to everything. If you want to demand more money, you can :hugs:

Avoid getting pushed around by subs. You’re on this page. Your page appears to have only one subscriber, who shouldn’t have control over its operations. I wouldn’t get too attached to a single subscriber, particularly if their contribution to your income is minimal. It is inconsiderate of him to ask you for content ideas if you didn’t ask directly. There’s no need to talk to him about it, because he’ll probably keep acting that way. All you need to say is, “Thank you for your feedback.” If his behavior becomes violent or forceful in the comments on your page, you may need to ban him or put his direct messages on mute if he persists in being demanding.

You reply, “Yes, a custom with me and two more people will cost $150 per minute.” What is your ideal number of minutes? At least five of us. :kissing_heart: Naturally, scheduling and organizing such a request takes some time, so after you’ve paid and left a tip, you can anticipate receiving it in 28 days!"

He’s not going to tip that, for crying out loud. :rofl:

At first, I let subs treat me in this way, but later, I started doing things that I didn’t particularly enjoy, which made it uncomfortable for me to promote. Moreover, simply having to put up with the obnoxious and demanding behavior was frustrating. And they always took it for granted. I made the decision to set clear limits and to not put up with anyone who tries to cross them. You can create the content he requests on your own timetable or even for a price, even though you feel comfortable doing so. Whatever you feel comfortable with. Setting boundaries and sticking to them is perfectly acceptable. If a sub tries to shove someone, I give them a warning (zero to one).

"What a smart ass idea. I will charge $50 per minute, per performer, for this request. I have to make sure that everyone is paid appropriately for this sultry request! ought to calm him down a little. :joy:

Straight up, girl. Every response on this page is accurate. Put your money where your mouth is and up the fucking prices if he is being so demanding. If such a request is made, I would advise you to simply set a ridiculously high price, and if they don’t deliver or fulfill it, you should be less concerned. Alternatively, you can take the money, keep the deposit, and profit greatly. Having said that, never give in to peer pressure to do something against your better judgment. My favorite reaction is, “Tips make me horny,” so if he’s going to be heckling you, tip that fucker out.

God, this reminds me of restricting a subscriber who would not quit talking about my bush even after I shaved and after I said that I wouldn’t be growing it out again. I’m not giving advice, and the situation is different. He paid for the content, and, in his excitement, I’m sure he meant good, but I was growing annoyed with him since it seemed like he was always messaging me about my pubic hair; even when I didn’t reply, he would just keep talking about it. I don’t regret limiting myself after a few months. I’ve also had to do it for a few other kind-hearted subscribers. Loss of income didn’t bother me because I feel like I can breathe and am less anxious when working on other projects.

I sincerely hope that OF will let us severely limit direct messages, just as we can on our free pages. It might be tiresome to read even enthusiastic messages. I’m not even sure if they are aware of how they could come across as demanding; perhaps they view it in their minds as a flirtatious proposal for content, but we don’t see it that way. gives us the impression that we’re not free to work at our own pace and create material in the manner in which we want to.

I don’t understand why students believe they can act in this manner. Push him/her to wait while holding out the metaphorical carrot. And unleash the wazoo!

I have had the same thing happen to me, and it’s frustrating because you feel the need to have some form of customer service to keep people happy and interested. The truth is, this is hard work, and people need to acknowledge and respect that. My advice is to charge a rush fee if they want content and you’re comfortable. You may as well make as much as you can out of it, and if they don’t like it, hey, it’s not a huge loss.