I keep running into people who just want to chat and tell me I’m beautiful, which is sweet and all, but I’m here to run a business and actually make money. I’ve tried to steer the conversation toward my paid content—PPVs, services, you name it. They’ll say they’ll buy it “later” but are really just interested in chatting with me as a person.
On a similar note, how do you handle toxic or abusive subs? I haven’t dealt with a lot yet, but I want to be prepared in case it happens. Have you guys encountered time-wasters or toxic people, and how do you handle it? I’d love to hear your advice and any stories you want to share.
There are always people who just want to chat endlessly with no intention of buying anything. I usually keep my responses short and try to redirect to my paid content. If they’re persistent about just talking, I let them know that I have to prioritize paying subscribers. If they’re serious, they’ll eventually support you; if not, they’ll probably move on.
The “I’ll buy it later” line is so common! It’s frustrating because you don’t want to be rude, but you also don’t want to waste time. I usually give them one or two polite nudges toward my paid content, and if they keep dodging, I start responding less. As for toxic subs, I set boundaries immediately. If someone crosses a line, I warn them once, and then they’re blocked if they continue. No need to deal with disrespect.
Honestly, if they’re not buying anything, I keep my replies super short or just stop replying. It sounds harsh, but it’s a business. I’ve had to block a few people who got rude after I didn’t give them the attention they wanted for free. It’s tough, but your peace of mind is worth it.
I get this a lot, too, especially with people who just want to “get to know me.” I’ve learned to recognize the difference between genuine fans and time-wasters. If they’re not interested in my content, I just say something like, “Hey, I’d love to keep chatting, but I need to prioritize those supporting my content.” Works like a charm most of the time.
For me, I make it clear from the start that I’m here to provide content and services, not free chat sessions. Most people get the hint, but some still try. I agree with the others—block anyone who gets toxic or crosses your boundaries. It’s not worth the stress.
I’ve had people like that too. They’re super friendly, but they don’t want to support financially. I keep it polite but professional, and if they’re still hanging around without buying, I start ignoring their messages. As for toxic subs, I block right away. Life’s too short to deal with negativity
Sometimes I’ll ask, “Are you interested in my premium content?” as a way to steer them toward paying. If they keep dodging, I just politely cut off the convo. For toxic people, I don’t give them a second chance—blocked right away. I’m here to create content, not to deal with rude people.
time-wasters are the worst. I’ve had some people act like they’re about to buy, but they just want free chat. I start by gently reminding them that I need to focus on paying customers, and if they still don’t get it, I stop responding. And with toxic subs, I don’t play games—one strike, and they’re out.
I know exactly what you mean. Some people just want attention without actually supporting. I’ve learned to be really upfront about my boundaries. If they’re not interested in buying, I don’t keep chatting. And yeah, anyone who’s rude or toxic gets blocked. You have to protect your space.
I’ve tried being patient with time-wasters, but now I’m more direct. I tell them that if they’re not here for content, I can’t keep chatting. And for toxic people, there’s no hesitation—I just block. It’s all about setting boundaries so you don’t get burnt out.
I like to use humor sometimes. I’ll say something like, “Hey, if you’re here for small talk, my premium content would love to meet you.” Keeps it light but gets the message across. Toxic subs, though, are a no-go. If they’re disrespectful, they’re gone.
It’s definitely frustrating, especially when you’re starting out. I try to set expectations early. I let them know that while I appreciate their compliments, my time is for those who support me. And with toxic people, it’s block city. I’m here to create, not deal with drama.
I’ve been there! The “I’ll buy it later” crowd is the worst. I give them one chance to buy, and if they don’t, I move on. For abusive subs, I’ve learned that blocking is the best option. No one has the right to bring that kind of energy to your space.
If someone just wants to chat, I remind them that I need to focus on paying fans. It’s hard to balance being friendly with running a business, but it’s necessary. Toxic subs don’t get second chances with me. I have no problem blocking if they’re disrespectful.